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Can we stop pretending the “perfect mom” exists?

Can we stop pretending the “perfect mom” exists?

When you hear the word, “mom”, what comes to mind?  Society will tell us many different versions of what we think should be the perfect mother. Sometimes it’s the #bossbabe who kills at her career but also makes it to the soccer games. Sometimes it’s the stay at home mom who cooks from scratch, homesteads,…

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Hot Mess Morning Routines That Might Actually Work

Hot Mess Morning Routines That Might Actually Work

Some mornings, I’m getting out of the door on time with clean, smiling, cooperative kids. Some mornings, I’m dragging my rabid screaming racoons of children with bedhead and twenty times behind. No rhyme or rhythm to it, either. I wish.  But, after years of trial and error, I can confidently offer some tips and tricks…

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I'm Steph, a mom, wife, nurse practitioner, and friend who happens to have autism. Join me as I stumble through life, celebrating all the victories, and learning from all the trials it has to offer.

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